I was reading a question that asked are you beautiful.....?

After reading some of the answers, I find it strange that some woman to think they are not beautiful beacuse of a man who treated them bad or would not love them the way the want or needed to be loved. So my question is why does a woman feel less beautiful when they are not loved like they wanted or cheated on? Why do somkin hot women think they are not beautiful because they dated a jerk who cheated or treats them like crap? I see some beautiful women out here who need to know they are beautiful not just for looks but for who you are. Also not because some jerk couldn't treat them right. So you smokin hot women out there tell me why a man can make you feel this way when he clearly is a jerk and doesn't respect you? Why does a jerk of a man leave a lasting impression when he shouldn't even get the time of day?